For some, dating with a fetish can be overwhelming. Whenever we start seeing someone new it is not easy to open up about our fantasies right away. Foot fetish is my thing, and based on personal experience, the more honest you are from the start, the better. Many of the girls I went out with were open and willing to explore a new kink. At the same time, rejections suck, and back in the days, I’ve had a fair share of those.
But times have changed and today finding a partner in crime is easier than ever. Thanks to the fetish-focused dating services you can find a long or short-term lover on the web, the one who shares similar sexual preferences. If you’re new to the online dating space, it is hard to tell which foot fetish dating app or site is worth your time. I’ve done my research already and here’s a list of sites that can help you find a memorable foot fetish hookup or even a long-term partner who shares your passion.
I was not sure if I should recommend FootFetishDating in my review as it is using dubious strategies to make you pay for the subscription. On the one hand, this British website is full of fakes and if you read Terms and Conditions, you’ll find out that they are open about this. The service does send you messages from fake profiles to encourage you to pay for it.
But on the other hand, it has real profiles too. I managed to have a hot sexting session with a woman from FootFetishDating that continued in Snapchat. I personally hate the fake messaging thing as it makes the service look very shady but if you’re ready to look past that, you might be rewarded.
- BDSM-focused foot fetish dating site.
- Good interface with a few useful foot fetish dating essentials.
- Has a foot fetish theme-based forum and chat.
- Global and local meetups.
- Fake profiles sending you messages to trick you into paying.
- Have to be a paid member to read the messages.
- No app, only mobile version.
If you’re looking for free dating sites, FootFetishDating is not for you. As I’ve mentioned earlier, their marketing strategy (or whatever that is) sucks. From sending automatic messages from fake profiles that you cannot read unless you pay to offering 10% “exclusive” discount — the service would be a lot better without these cheap tricks. Besides, FootFetishDating doesn’t have an app but that’s the common issue with this type of service.
If you do pay for the membership, you’ll get to read and write messages freely and get access to all the photos and videos. Also, free members will be able to read your messages. If you decide to pay for the first month and it won’t stand up to your expectations, you’ll get another one for free. I haven’t tried claiming that benefit myself, as I’ve managed to find some fun. Also, apart from foot fetish dating, the website is popular among other users who are into BDSM (I got a lot of offers from subs), roleplay, cuckold, and others. And if you’re wondering how to find escorts, check out their forum section for some offers.
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Pure is one of those apps, available for iOS and Android, that you can easily get addicted to. Although it is not focused exclusively on foot fetish dating, the audience on Pure is pretty much down-to-anything and probably won’t be scared away by any of your kinks. It is a smooth hookup app that allows you to leave ads and browse through the ads of others. If you like the ad and its owner returns the compliment, you can start chatting.
The app is perfect for finding a hookup, a one-night stand, and a partner with a similar fetish. It is anonymous, private, and secure — basically, all you need to have in a sex app. If you’re a guy, you’ll have to buy a subscription in order to post an ad but, in my experience, it is totally worth it.
- Private online dating experience.
- The app is clean and a pleasure to use.
- Wide geography of members.
- High chances to find a partner who is into the same kink as you.
- Not focused specifically on foot fetish so you’ll have to browse through the ads and reach out to people.
In case you’re tired of the mainstream dating apps with their silent matches, you should check out Pure. If you’re a woman, you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the active male audience. And men can rest assured that the ladies on the app won’t be fooling around.
I’ve been using Pure for a while and it has the most down-to-earth and at the same time open-minded audience
Pure is private and deletes your chats after 24 hours and if the other person makes a screenshot of the chat, you’ll be notified. Chats are well-organized too and allow you to send pictures from the gallery, selfies, and voice messages. As for the foot fetish dating, you won’t have any issues with it too. My strategy is to browse through the ads and reach out to the ones with a similar vibe. In my experience, there’s no lack of the girls who are into BDSM and on Pure, and they are usually eager to try some foot fetish play. Overall, Pure is the best app for people who look for partners with similar kinks and fetishes.
FeetDating is another British-based foot fetish dating website. It is one of the few online services that is dedicated only to the foot fetish, gay and straight. You can use it for free or try a cheap 5-days subscription. Unfortunately, the majority of users are from the UK and the number of people using it is relatively small.
After signing up you’ll have to wait for a while until the admins approve your request at FeetDating. They are big on security which is a good thing but waiting to use the website is still a bummer and I even managed to forget that I applied. At the same time, anyone without any registration can browse through profiles of the users which is alarming.
- Good level of security.
- Has Lesbian and gay foot fetish dating profiles.
- Real users who are mostly into foot fetish dating.
- Cheap paid membership.
- More suitable for the members from the UK.
- Not too many members.
- Questionable anonymity.
- No app available.
- Have to wait to be approved for using the service.
FeetDating has been around for seven years and a lot of foot fetish people are familiar with it. The good thing about this service is that it includes the LGBT community and was created for the needs of foot loving and BDSM practicing audience. Despite the outdated interface and complicated signing up procedure, FeetDating has a few cool features such as live chat and webcam.
However, all the goodness is for paid members only
My favorite thing about profiles on FeetDating is that you can choose from a variety of things that you’re into. Just name your kink and I’m sure you’ll find it there: from biting and spanking to verbal humiliation and couples adventures (by the way, if you’re into swinging, check out FabSwingers as well). But I was really disappointed that FeetDating is yet another service that doesn’t have a separate app. You might as well just use Pure to find your next kinky lover in the comfort of your own sofa, browsing from your smartphone.
FootFetishLovers is a dating service brought to you by FeetHunter, one of the most informative online resources dedicated to the foot fetish community. Just like with other services, you need to buy the subscription to enjoy all the benefits.
The service is international, so there is a chance that you might find your match nearby. It is also focused on the BDSM relationships and you have to fill in your role (switch, master/mistress, or slave) to register. Also, you are required to mention your special interests like chains, sex toys, whips, or other fixations. It does help when you have this info in the profiles.
- Detailed profiles that state your sex role and interests.
- International audience.
- Messaging is only available for paid members.
- Fake profiles.
- Lack of privacy.
One of the things that make FootFetishLovers stand out is how honest people are about their preferences. I’ve come across numerous profiles describing their fantasies in detail. You basically, don’t even need to engage in sexting, just read the info of several profiles instead.
The service is international and besides the profiles in English, you’ll find a lot of them in German, Italian, Spanish, and other languages. However, don’t get your hopes high too soon. FootFetishLovers also uses the same BS-strategy to lure users in by sending messages from fake profiles. So you’ll have to spend some time searching for the real deal.
Adult Friend Finder is one of the oldest dating services that is focused on hookups and affairs rather than something serious. Prepare to pay for the membership as messaging and viewing profiles is not free. However, the website has a lot to offer in terms of sex adventures and if you don’t mind filtering out fakes and scammers, this could be a good way to find your foot fetish lover.
AdultFriendFinder is not just the dating service, it is an adult entertaining platform for those of you who are tired from regular porn sites and want to have some real-life touch into their online sex experiences.
- Detailed profiles describing fantasies and sexual preferences.
- Hookup-ready audience.
- A lot of fakes and scammers.
- Issues with security.
- Have to pay for view full profiles and messaging.
- Lack of matching algorithms.
AdultFriendFinder is one of those hookup sites like Craigslist that attracts the sexually active audience in a search of their next adventure. Foot fetish dating is only a small part of the deal, as you’ll come across different profiles that may surprise you. Apart from basic one-on-one messaging, you can join groups and chatrooms, read themed magazines, and watch live videos.
Users write their own sex stories and foot fetish is only one of the hot topics they cover
However, you have to be careful with using AdultFriendFinder, especially if you plan on sharing some sensitive info such as photos and videos. A few years ago the service had a huge scandal with data leakage. Apart from that, you’ll have to browse through all the profiles, a lot of which are non-active, yourself. There are no matching algorithms to help you, so prepare to spend some time looking for the one.
What is a foot fetish?
People with a foot fetish are sexually aroused by feet from painting nails to footjob and other forms of foot worshiping. Often it comes together with a BDSM-play and is a quite common sexual preference.
What are the best foot fetish dating websites?
FeetDating, FootFetishDating, and FootFetishLovers are some of the most popular foot fetish dating websites. Pure is a great app for finding hookups and it is widely used by people with foot fetishes.
Are there any gay foot fetish websites?
FeetDating has a gay foot fetish section on their website. You can also try using regular gay dating sites and apps and specify your preferences in the profile.
Is there a Tinder for foot fetish lovers?
Tinder itself is not a dedicated app for those who love feet, although you might come across a profile or two who state their preferences. Instead, you may try FeetDating or Pure.
What’s a good way to let my dating app matches know that I’m into foot fetish?
It may be awkward indeed. My advice is to be honest and straight-forward. You’ll have to tell them anyway, so why don’t do it right away? However, I’d recommend trying dedicated foot fetish sites such as FootFetishDating. There you definitely won’t be ridiculed for your preferences.
If you’re looking for a decent foot fetish dating app, my advice is to download Pure. It has a lot of interesting profiles and the audience is happy to experiment. FeetDating and FootFetishDating are some decent niche websites that can help you find your next online adventure. My advice is to be upfront about your preferences as it will make your search easier and more rewarding.