Music, kissing & more. What does every Turn-On on Pure mean?

Что нужно знать о партнере перед свиданием

We think everyone has a turn-on. To help you navigate Pure better, we've compiled this Turn-On Vocabulary to help you choose from our extensive list of preferences while dating and when in bed. Some of them are pretty straightforward, and some of them, we're sure, will surprise you. Read, learn, and apply in practice!


1. Kisses

This one is not just about making out. If you enjoy kissing your partner’s body or having a partner do it - add it to your Profile. Love a kiss on the cheek when you meet? This Turn-On is for you!

2. Massage

Add it when you enjoy massaging, kneading, and stroking your partner's body - or someone doing it to you. It doesn't have to be about getting to it, so feel free to add it if you're a touchy human being.

3. Music

Add it if you like sharing playlists, going to concerts and parties, listening to music together, and getting to know each other through it.

4. Literature

Add it if you enjoy reading books together, sharing opinions and recommendations, love both giving books and getting books or have always wanted to be a librarian.

5. Film buff

If you avidly watch TV series and movies, have all the streaming subscription services, and love to talk about Polanski, Kubrick, and Hitchcock on a first date, add this Turn-On to your Profile.

6. Foot fetish

Do you like touching and kissing feet, ankles, calves, and everything above, or watching your partner do it, this one is for you. We're head over heels for this Turn On, too.

7. Devices

Vibrators, plugs, strapons, satisfiers, and all kinds of pumps. If you like  devices or want to try them, this Turn-On is your new go-to!

8. Scents

Perfumes and scented cosmetics, body odor, clothes, and shoes, a light note of tobacco on the skin - if any of these things make you happy or excited, this Turn-On was made for you!

9. Oral 

Is for cunnilingus, rimming, blowjob, and more. Add it to your profile if you like giving or receiving oral pleasure. Or if you're up for both!

10. Biting

If you like biting your partner during foreplay or enjoy getting bitten, this Turn-On is for you, Mr. Dracula. Enjoy.


11. Bushes

For the ones who like hair under the arms, in private areas, on the legs, face, hands, and anywhere else! Love all things au-naturel? Don't be shy - add this Turn On to your profile.

12. Home Video

If you enjoy making videos of your shared or solo practices, watching them together, and sharing them with each other - pick this Turn-On.

13. Striptease

If you enjoy watching your partner move in front of you as they slowly remove their clothes, or putting a private show yourself, this Turn-On is for you.

14. Being watched

Many people are turned on when a third person watches them doing it. Live or on video. You do too? Let everyone know by adding this Turn-On to your profile.

15. Fantasies

Choose it if you want to share your sensual fantasies, whether unfulfilled or real. Or if you wish for that special someone to tell you theirs.

16. Dirty Talk

Words can be a powerful tool. Add it if you enjoy talking dirty, or listening to someone’s dirty talk.

17. Sapiosexuality

Smart is sexy. If your mind turns you on, you love science, and you sometimes scream "Eureka!" during orgasm, this Turn-On is for you.

18. Sexting

Imagine what those fingers can do! If you dream of them typing smutty messages and sending nudes, here's how to get you one step closer to it: pick "Sexting" as your Turn-On.

19. Breakfast

The best breakfast in bed is morning sex. The best morning pleasure is breakfast in bed. If one or both options work for you, this Turn-On is about you.

20. Hotel

Hotel fun or date night isn't just about perfect sex on crisp sheets. Choose this Turn-On, if you live for luxurious rooms and great views.

21. Feminism

If you're a feminist, support women's rights, and recognize gender equality, we're so proud of you. Make sure you let everyone know by adding this Turn-On!

22. I'm a dom

This one is for people who are sexually dominant in a BDSM relationship. So we beg on our knees: Master, consider adding this Turn-On to your profile. Sorry for asking, and thank you!

23. I'm a sub

This Turn-On is for those who like to submit to the Dom's will. Add it to your profile. Do it now!

24. Switch

Is for those who don't want to choose between being a dom or a sub, but like the best of both worlds. Once or forever!

25. Skin

If you love wearing leather and latex or admire the ones who prefer such outfits, this Turn-On suits all adult leather lovers.

26. Been to therapy

This Turn-On is for those, who want to let people know they're going to therapy and those who want to meet people who are into it.

27. Cuckold

Choose this Turn-On if you like watching someone having fun with your partner in front of you. Or behind your back ;) But only you know about it, approve of it, and most importantly, it turns you on.

28. Wax play

Pick this Turn-On if you're into (safe) use of hot wax during foreplay or sex. Caution: it's hot!

29. Role play

This Turn-On is for those, who want to play out their fantasies in reality, and get into different characters, from everyday scenarios to historical figures.

30. Butt-play

Is perfect for any anal action - whether you pick an active or passive role.

31. Edging

If you enjoy teasing your partner to hold back their orgasm. Or wanting someone else to control the moment you cum. Or not; that's up to them.

32. Blindfold

Visual deprivation, or blindfolded sex - to focus on other senses.

33. Chocolate

Pick this Turn-On if you're into whole dom and sub action, S&M, or can teach someone the ropes. Pun intended!

34. Tattoo & Piercing

Choose this Turn-On if you admire piercing and tattoos - on your or your partners' bodies. Crazy about it? Add it for everyone to see.

35. Swinging

Consensual swap of sexual partners - in private or at specialized events.

36. Vanilla

Traditional (as recognized by the conventional majority) sexual practices. Softness, tenderness, compliments, and romance on the highest level. Yum!

37. Artsy dates

Choose it if you prefer dates in art galleries, lectures, exhibitions, workshops, movies - anywhere where you can get to know a person through their perception of beauty.

38. Let’s dance

Techno parties, dances in the bar, forest raves - it's a perfect Turn-On for those, who can't stop moving. One, two, cha-cha-cha, add this Turn-On to your profile.

39. Cosplay

Suppose you love turning into heroes of computer games, movies, books, comics, anime, and manga. And would love to take joint trips to thematic festivals. This Turn-On will help you find the one.

40. Аnime

This Turn-One is perfect for die-hard fans of Japanese animation, and for those who want to know more. Add this Turn-On to your profile to find like-minded individuals.

41. Board games

Is for Monopoly, Scrabble, and many more. Choose Board games Turn-On if you love board game dates and looking for someone to play with.


Stas Sarkisov, Pure Team


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