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B is for Bondage. It refers to the BDSM or your kinkiness. Whatever you prefer the most. A lot of couples nowadays experiment with bondage more and more. The secret is revealed, you don’t go full BDSM to try bondage and just keep it there.

Bondage positions in sex

What is bondage and why you need it in your bedroom

Long story short, bondage is a form of a sex play where one of the partners is restrained. Usually, people have the idea where the woman is the one who is restrained, but in real life, it is not necessarily. Men enjoy that as much as women.

Why do you need it in your bedroom? Well, first of all, it is exciting. It is new and interesting. You can explore your fantasies at full speed and be more open up with your partner. Plus, your senses are evolving that gives extra sensual power.

Second of all, you have options to try yourself in both roles, as dominant and submissive. Even if you think you are not one of those characters it is always a good idea to try. Domination will give you a sense of power that you might never know you had and would enjoy. On the other hand, being submissive can also reveal sexual fantasies and inner desires that were locked up somewhere in your self conscious.

10 bondage sex positions for her and him

So before we jump into variety of the all possible bondage sex positions, therre is one detail that you should do before.

List of bondage positions

Concent

That includes the first initiative talk with your partner. You both need to be ready for the experimentation and both be excited about it. Otherwise, it is not that great an idea. Discuss with your partner how far you want to go. If bondage is just the first step to get to full BDSM fantasy or bondage it is already one complete fantasy that you want to try.

Afterward, express which role you want to try, if there is only one that you see yourself in. At least for now. If you and your partner are open for the experimentation – pick the safe word as a signal to stop at any moment in case if one of you doesn’t feel like continuing anymore. We don’t want any of you to get hurt physically or mentally. After all the details are discussed, let the fun begin!

The Headboard Missionary Position

Very simple, yet very sexual sex position if you add a little of bondage here. The main point is to restrain your partner’s hands over the head and attach them with handcuffs or the rope or any other device. Keep in mind that hands should be on a comfortable distance between one another to avoid any unneeded pain.

Missionary can get more interesting with bondage

Now you are the boss and can proceed with anything you want. Start with sensual kisses and touches all over the body, oral sex will do great, expesially if you add a blindfold. You can use sex toys as well as unexpected penetration also will make your partner droll with pleasure and hotness.

Spread Eagle Bondage Position

Similar to headboard missionary position but more bondage, just like we like it. All you would need is rope or bondage tape, if you don’t have any of these toys at home, you can use stockings (to tie him up) or ties (to tie her up). It puts mental sexual fantasy higher as it makes the situation more spontaneous for your partner.

Spread your partner to the four sides of the bed

Note, that since arms will be in the upper position it could slow down the blood circulation and eventually might feel uncomfortable for your partner. So when you tie them up make sure it is a little bit loose. Unless that type of restriction is what you are going for.

Bent Over Bondage Position

This position is so juicy. Why? Simply because it reveals all intimate details of your partner. Though, be sure you or your partner (depends who is in a submissive role) are bendy and flexible enough.

Make sure your partner is bendy enough

Look at it as full down doggy position but legs are connected to each other and arms are collected together with the household object or a sex toy. If this is your first time trying the position it is better to start when both hands and legs are connected to the pair. When you are on a more advanced level, you should try to connect legs and hands together in one lock between your legs. That will be a good spice.

Chair Bondage Position

This is another quite easy position as it requires submissive to sit which is comfortable and steady. Here you can add all possible sex toys and accessories. Bondage your partner against the chair. Your choice as a dominant on how to tie hands and legs. Hands can be tied up behind the back and/or the back of a chair. Legs also have at least two different ways. Either together to one another or separately, where each is tied up to one chair leg.

Chair is steady and pleasant place to be tied up

If you can think of more complicated ways to tied up to a chair – be our guest. Get more materials, your partner’s consent and practice stretching if that would require more flexibility than per usual position.

Leapfrog Bondage Position

Sexy bondage position alert. position is very similar to the bent over bondage position, but in our personal experience, much easier. It requires both legs to be attached together, the perfect way will be using a spreader bar. That way legs will be still in the same distance will make submissive more accessible and steel.

Bondage doggy

Now that legs are steady, tie hands in front of the person. Put her of him in a doggy position, placing the head to the floor, bed, pillow, wherever you are and attach tied up hands to the middle of the spreader bar. In addition, you can add mouth gag.

The Wide Open Position

Great bondage sex position for beginners and when you are both want to see stuff. The submissive partner is on the back with legs all the way up to the head. It might seem more difficult than it is in real life. We will break it down in a second.

This position gives full access to whatever you want as a domination part

Each leg should be tied up to the side of the upper corners of the bed. Rope will do great here. After, you can use the rope around the hips/thighs zone and attach the other end of the rope to the lower sides of the bed. Now, once you are done with it, the next step is to tie up wrists to ankles. Each wrist ties up to the same side ankle with a rope, but we would suggest experimenting with the bondage tape.

Now add a mouth gag and play with all the sex toys that you want to. position is quite vulnerable for the submissive, so you can add dirty talk and eye contact while playing around.

The Over-the-Chair Position

This particular sex position is awesome for the anal play. To get into this one, you would need a one very stable chair or stool and bondage rope. The chair should be steady and optimised for your partner to feel comfortable while he or she is bending over it for quite some time.

The chair or the stool should be very steady

Getting your partner ready and steady for the position along with tying up legs and hands either to each other and then to the chair or stool. You can also tie up each leg and hand to the stool separately. Besides, this position will allow you to show off all the knot skills that you have probably studied way before this day. So do not hesitate and try all of them. Do not forget mouth gag and anal toys.

The Wall-Bound Position

Comfortable bondage. That’s an easy way to dive in and have your first bondage session with your partner. Will be great for both male and female submissives but males mostly. Simply because it is easier to access the penis for oral sex, for instance.

Tie up wherever you want and however you want

As this is a light version of bondage, your partner might not be ready to go all the way and hard-core. This is why this is a great position to make him fall in love with domination and submissive ways of bondage. Place your partner against a wall, shower can be a good option because you will have a steady point to wear tied up your partner’s hands. Which is basically our next step. Use tape or rope to tied hands behind and attach them to the steady point where it will be hard to move. Now it is up to you what to do next. you can jump into oral sex or a major and sensual tease. Up to you.

This Little Piggie

Little piggie position is the OG of the classic bondage sex positions and will leave your submissive partner speachless and happy with all the pleasure and orgasms.

Gives a lot of access to your submissive partner

Submissive should be laying on the stomach while arms are stretched all the way behind the body and cross-attached to the  legs that are bent in knees and connected to each other with a spreader bar. Bar is a great option here as it will restrain the knee movement that would lead to more forbidden pleasure due to the lack of basic body restrictions. You can also tie up each knee with the rope and attach it to the sides of the bed, for instance.

You, as a dominant, is placed from behind your partner and can do whatever it is you want with your partner. You can add mouth gag and blindfold to the set and play around with sensual touches.

Hogtie Bondage Position

This bondage position might not be the best for penetration sex at all, but will be great for the toy forplay or as a orgasm withdraw game.

Different bondage positions

Your knot skills have to be quite advanced for this position as most of the submissive body’s restrained with the rope. Connect everything together, starting with the mouth gaga and the head all the way to shoulders, back, elbows, arms behind back, to knees that are bent and hands are connected to toes or lower ankles.

BDSM positions and sex toys to use

Bondage sex toys guide to spicy it up

Besides all the household object that you can find at your home or your wordrobe for the bondage sex you can use plenty of sex toys and accesories.

Sex toys and accesories bringing that BDSM mood into the bedroom which initiates the mood set for some kinky. Today let’s leave behind all possible dildos, vibrators, and anal plugs together with beads aside and pay more attention to the true BDSM or just B (Bondage) sex toys and accesories. You will be surprised how many of those you can get nowadays.

Sexual bondage with handcuffs

Handcuffs | Wrist Cuffs | Ankle Cuffs

One of the most popular BDSM accessories. Despite the fact that we imagine metal handcuffs like a police would use, a lot of people would say a big no to those and choose leather ones over these.

Metal handcuffs, wrist cuffs, and ankle cuffs seems great but would definitely leave marks all over, and if this is not what you are going for in your fantasy – you won’t like the outcome at the end of your games. Also, some of the hand cuffs have additional D-rings that can be used for any other bondage.

Budapest Full Grain Leather Handcuffs Leg Cuffs

$46.99

Comfortable hand/leg cuffs with D-rings

These handcuffs that are also well used and suitable for ankles have life-time warranty and will definitely serve you for a very long time. Quality materials will leave only pleasant side effects.

KKFK black soft nylon handcuffs cuffs

$15.99

Adjustable handcuffs for him and her

Leather handcuffs looks sophisticated and will be a great addition to your sex toys collection. A pair is adjustable for wrists and ankles and suitable for women and men. Great investment and harmless to the skin.

Bondage hogties experience

Bondage Hogties

These little accessories will make any BDSM experience spicy and more interesting. Those are usually used to connect all two pairs of handcuffs or any other toys all together that will surprise you with a more pleasant outcome.

Inescapable nylon Hog Tie with metal rivet fastener

$59.75

White nylon hog tie for BDSM

This nylon hog tie will definitely take sure of holding all of your bonding together. It has three metal fasteners and will get very handy in any type of bondage.

Black Leather Metal Hog Tie

$99.75

Even though this particular hog tie seems quite pricey, the quality of it will surprise you and it lasts a life-time for you and your partner. Quality leather and four metal fasteners will hold it together.

How to use bondage rope

Bondage Rope

Number one within the bondage or BDSM sex toys and accesories. A lot of newbies think that there is no difference between regular rope and bondage rope. Although, there is a huge difference. Same as in the story with handcuffs, the bondage rope that is created to reveal BDSM fantasies is less harmful to the skin and to the body itself.

It is important to learn the knots before you are trying it on the real person. Even when you master your knowledge, it is critical to know all the ways out from the knots and, just in case, keep a pair of scissors near you during the bondage session.

Original Rope Work Rope

$12.99

Special bondage rope for BDSM play

10 meters of this specialized bondage rope will make your BDSM experience unforgettable and unique. That will help to open up your inner desires and fantasies. Also, the store offers discreet shipping.

Better Bondage for Every Body: With Rope Bondage Experts From Around the World

$32.41

Useful Bondage book for beginners

Award winner author will get you familiar with all the secrets and main techniques of Bondage culture. You will get the knowledge on how to tie up any body type and how to get the person out of your bondage within seconds. Worth reading.

Practical usage of the bondage tape

Bondage Tape

Same as bondage rope, tape is different from the regular one. Household tape will hurt after the session, when you need to get rid of it. On the other hand, propper bondage tape will not give such a feeling. It is harmless to the skin and will do just one job – keep your bondage tight. Nothing more.

No Stick Static Tapes,No Glue Electrostatic Adsorption No Hair Pulling or Sticky Residue

$17.99

Bondage tape for the BDSM

90 feet of a beautiful black or red tape will help you to increase your sexual curiosity and evolve sexual desire during the bondage plays. It won’t hurt to take it off and will hold your bondage firmly.

Tape King Gaffers Tape

$19.95

Double tape set for bondage

Gaffers Tape is waterproof, easy-to-cut and tears effortlessly. It will perfectly secure your bondage of any level and will not hurt to take it off at the end of the session. 2 tapes in total has 180 feet to experiment on the fullest.

Spreader bars in use

Spreader bars

Spreader bars were created to give almost no flexibility to the person who is cuffed to it. Those are usually used for wrists and ankles to hold them on the same distance without the option of moving.

You can use them to secure the legs or arms behind the back or infront. You can also connect them together if you are using them to restrain both arms and legs.

SCARLET KITTEN Wood Spreader Bar with Adjustable Straps Kit, Rose

$34.99

Spreader bar for the BDSM games

Sophisticated design will please the eye and quality materials will make sure to keep your submissive steady. In addition you will get a set of additional handcuffs and a spanker as a gift to excel your sexual fantasies.

Lsinyan Nylon Spreader Bar

$28.50

Nylon set of spreader bars

Absolutely discreet packaging will get no one’s suspicions. It has two bars for more games. Quality materials will be faithful to you for years.

Bondage sex accessories

Under Mattress Restraints

Under Mattress Restraints will make a perfect addition of toys in your bedroom. As most couples, you must have a double bed where you can try them out. Those will be a great way to start your journey into bondage culture and BDSM. It does not require any specific knowledge, like for instance, bondage rope. So that gives you the privilege to try it as soon as it comes to your address.

xinmao Manual Assembly Nylon Cuffs Fun Activities Daily Tools

$19.99

Under Mattress Restraints set

This accessory does need much introduction. It’s quality material will make sure to hold your partner down while you are doing all the nasty.

Bed Wrist Ankle Straps Cuffs Set Soft

$13.98

Under matress set for couples

Easy to set and effortless to use, this sex toy will get you to the new level with your partner. Get you set right away and enjoy the bondage games that do not require more than a double bed.

Bondage set kits will serve you for life

Bondage kits

We love bondage kits. You can find those that collect in it all the needed toys for your BDSM scenario. No need to set the hunt for each piece that you have in mind. Besides, those kits have matching design, which is also a great kinky present for your other half.

Feeke Exercise Bands Sport Kits Adjustable Set of 10PCS

$25.99

10 pieces bondage set for couples

This cute purple 10 piece set includes 3 straps,4 cuffs,1 eye mask, 2 clips,1 whip, 1 rope, and 1 paddle. Those are well combined together and can be used separately for whatever fun game you choose to play this time.

24 Pc Set Leather Sxx Toys Bed Game Play Set Couples Game Tools Kit

$30.99

24 pieces sex set for BDSM scenarios

This is a wider set that has all in total 24 different pieces that are placed in the photo above. It has everything starting from handcuffs and ending with different-shaped butt plugs. Don’t forget to use lube and condoms if you are buying one sec for two people.

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FAQ

What is bondage?

Bondage means to tie, bind or restrict physical movements of your partner in an erotical or sexual way. Usually a part of the BDSM culture.

What are the main accessories for bondage?

You can start with handcuffs and blindfold and evaluate to bondage tape or rope, mastering all possible knots with your partner.

What is the best position to try Bondage for the first time?

Start slowly and easily with the headboard missionary position or spread eagle bondage position. That will help to gain trust between partners while one of them (submissive) is tied up to a bed partly or fully.

Which sex position is more advanced?

Bent over bondage position and hogtie position are quite advanced as it takes more effort into bondaging the submissive or requires submissive to be bendy.

Is it important to try bondage with my partner?

Yes, it is, if that’s what both of you want. Before jumping into the physical part – discuss all the options and finish with a mutual consent. Once you are ready, bondage will help you to open up more to your partner and discover inner and probably hidden desires.

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Aya Lisch
Has lifelong interest for all the sex and kinky experiments. Dedicated her life to traveling the world to explore differ aspects of international dating from Hong Kong to New York. Turned each failed date and one night stand into occasional stand-up comedy shows.

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