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Getting started with the doggy style: tips for girls

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Doggy style is one of the first positions, learned by couples who only start their sexual experiments. It’s simple, versatile, and satisfying — perhaps, that’s the reason why it remains a favorite of many experienced men and women. Once you’ve gotten past that initial barrier of not liking to be taken from behind, you will likely discover that it’s well worth it.

This position offers both anal and vaginal penetration, and some say, even hits the mysterious G point. This is my guide to one of the favorite sex poses.

Doggy style is a simple and universal sex position

What’s the doggy position

The basics are straightforward: the receiver gets down and stands in a cow-cat-like pose, with the butt facing the partner. The partner enters from behind — similarly to how dogs mate. It’s one of the most common sex positions that you’ve likely seen in movies, and it’s a must-try.

How to stand in the doggy position

The doggy position has multiple variations, but the simple version has only a few rules. Let’s see what each partner is supposed to be doing.

The most important role for the receiver is to stand in the position properly. Once you’ve got the height and the angle right, all you have to do is remain in the same position. It’s perfect for beginners — you don’t have to take the initiative or exhaust yourself.

Women use their palms or elbows for support, while men stand on their knees

Get on your hands and knees, facing your partner with your rear. You can stay in this position or lie on the stomach if your hands and legs get tired quickly.

Be sure that your heights match. If not, one of the participants can use pillows to decrease the height difference. You certainly don’t want to tense your muscles, trying to reach the partner or lower yourself.

Find additional support for your hands, if the floor surface is slippery or you get tired quickly.

Use a vibrator to stimulate your clit while the partner is thrusting from behind. To reach orgasm faster, you need additional stimulation.

Talk to your partner in the process. You need to discuss the tempo and degree of penetration, so no one is hurt or unsatisfied.

Doggy position is a transition state between vaginal and anal sex — you can switch to either of these, and that’s the beauty of it. If you do, however, be sure to change the condoms and don’t rush the process — you might need some additional foreplay.

Once you’ve got the height and the angle right, all you have to do is remain in the same position

What do guys do in the doggy position

This position requires a lot of activity from guys. Men are busy thrusting in and out, and they need to adapt the intensity and speed of penetration to their partner’s likes and physiology — the last thing you want during sex is hurting each other. Let’s take a look at the essential tips for the position.

Men can change the angle of their entry by thrusting forward or leaning back. How much and where the guy should be leaning depends on the length of his penis and action intensity.

When a man is behind a girl, he can also stimulate a girl’s clit with fingers or hold a vibrator to help her reach a vaginal orgasm faster.

The legs can go either inside or outside the girl’s legs. Both positions are equally satisfying.

Couples, where the man is dominant, can experiment with spanking. You can ask your guy to scratch your back for more playfulness.

Guys have to listen to what their partners have to say — sometimes, the girl will feel uncomfortable with too deep penetration or unsatisfied with the superficial one — both can be fixed by leaning and thrusting.

Men can take their partner’s booty or waist and play around with their hands

The doggy style is more demanding for guys in terms of motion because they always need to be active and alert to the partner’s reactions. However, girls face some challenges of their own, like keeping up with the guy’s style. But, there’s nothing that communication can’t solve.

The doggy style is more demanding for guys in terms of motion because they always need to be active and alert to the partner’s reactions

How to adjust the doggy style position

Some aspects of the position can and should be improved on the go, as it’s often impossible for partners to guess precisely what degree of penetration or height to choose, even if they know each other well.

It might take some getting used to, but once you are proficient in the position, you will hardly need so much additional preparation. Let’s take a look at the main issues during doggy sex and figure out how to solve them.

Doggy penetration is too deep

Ask your partner to go with less amplitude in his movements. Maybe, he’s pushing hard on purpose, hoping to satisfy you better.

Instead of having your partner enter you, try thrusting yourself on his penis while facing him with your butt. You might not hit the target right away, but the result will be worth it.

Change the angle of your stance. Sometimes, the position opens a direct path to your cervix, and that can be painful.

Ask your partner to lean backward slightly — but not too much, or the penetration will be shallow.

Doggy penetration is not enough

Elevate yourself — if the height difference between partners is significant, achieving deep penetration will require more effort because the guy has to rich for your rear.

Spread your knees more: to achieve more noticeable effects, you can help yourself b opening the vaginal and anal canals better.

Ask a partner to move closer to you: sometimes, a guy is too far away, and the penis size might not be enough to deliver noticeable effects.

Either way, if the penetration is not enough, the main go-to strategy is minimizing the distance between the partners and picking nice angles that open your canals better. It’ll take some practice even if everything feels right, experimenting with different positions never hurts.

You can try out different angles and positions to adjust the doggy style for you

Adapting to a different height

If one partner is significantly shorter than the other, it will have a direct impact on the quality of penetration, unless you equal the differences. Luckily, there are plenty of tips for that.

  • Kneel. You can elevate your hips by kneeling even more down. You want to stretch a bit, like in the yoga cat position, to get your hips as high as possible.
  • Lay on the stomach. This is good advice for partners where the guy is shorter than a girl. You can minimize the differences by literally laying low, adjusting to the guy’s best angles.
  • Use pillows to elevate one of the partners. Not only they provide excellent support and make sex even more romantic, but they also provide a nice foundation for short girls, who need to get their hips a bit higher, or guys, who’d like to get into a sharper angle.

Fixing height differences is a key factor in creating a pleasant experience in the doggy position.

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Additional tips for enjoying the doggy style

Doggy style is one of the most satisfying positions, even if you don’t add any other activities. However, my favorite aspect of this position is that no matter how good a basic experience is, it can always be enhanced. Here are my tips for getting an ultimate doggy style experience.

Foreplay is everything

Doggy style is intense, and it needs warm-up. You can’t just ask your partner to thrust in you right away — if you are unprepared, it might even hurt. Give your body time to adjust to strong sexual pleasures with light foreplay. Start with dirty talk, do some finger stimulation, and bring the vibrator to the game. Dedicate at least 5-15 minutes to getting yourself exciting — and use doggy style as a finishing touch.

Start with playful massage and dirty talk before going into the doggy style

You don’t have to kneel all the time

Traditional doggy style puts a lot of pressure on girls’ knees — if you are not used to this, they will start hurting pretty soon. If you feel pain, you can get up and lean with your body, using a wall for the support. Some like the standing doggy style better than the kneeling one.

Lying down brings diversity

If standing or kneeling during sex isn’t your thing, you can make it easier for you and lie flat on the stomach. Don’t forget to use the pillow to elevate yourself. Otherwise, your partner will have to work hard to reach you, and neither of you will enjoy the process.

Different doggy style locations are worth trying

The doggy style doesn’t need a bed. You can take the party to the kitchen, bathroom, and room, and even to the car, as long as you have enough room there. It’s one of the most mobile positions, so definitely use it to shake things up.

Nipple stimulation helps to get better orgasms

In the doggy style position, your partner’s hands are free, which means you can grab ahold of them and place them on your chest. Your partner can start slowly massaging your breasts with some assistance from your side — and you will get that orgasm pretty quickly.

Use vibrator for additional vaginal stimulation

Although the doggy style reaches a vaginal canal during penetration, it’s still more of an anal type of sex. You need to stimulate yourself from the front to get higher chances of an orgasm — use a vibrator or a finger play.

Explore your body on your own, and let the partner join later

Avoid slippery surfaces

You want to hold your angles nice and steady, and that’s pretty hard to do if you are slipping in bed. You don’t want to lean on anything rough either — your knees will start hurting immediately. My top choice is a thin natural blanket that provides my knees with enough friction but isn’t quite as hard as the floor on its own.

FAQ

How to do a doggy style?

You need to turn to a guy with your back and butt and bend so that he can enter you from behind. Dogs’ mating style inspires the position — hence, the name. If you are doing it for the first time, I suggest using a mirror for a reflection — you will be able to see both of you and know which angles work best.

Why do women like the doggy style position?

It’s a highly submissive position — you let a guy to show his wild side and fully take the initiative. Girls can enjoy the process without thinking about what to do with their legs or hands. Also, the doggy style has a high likelihood of reaching the rumored G-spot — the point in female’s vagina that, when stimulated well, brings the most satisfaction.

Why do men like doggy style so much?

There are many reasons. Some guys enjoy getting a good look at their partner’s butt; others like having free arms and legs. For many, it’s also the question of preference: doggy position is a very dominant one, which allows guys to express themselves.

What do you think about having sex doggy style?

Doggy style can be seen as something humiliating by women who don’t enjoy the thought of being entered from the back. The name doesn’t help, either. However, these are prejudices — women who tried a doggy style know that it’s one of the simplest and most satisfying positions. It requires little to no effort, and delivers a lot of pleasure instead – what’s humiliating about that?

How does doggy style feel to a woman?

Doggy style is a rough sex position with deep penetration. It’s highly compatible with BDSM sex — guys can spank, scratch, and even choke a partner. It can also be done more gently in combination with foreplay and vaginal sex. Doggy style is diverse, which is why it appeals to so many women.

What does it feel like to do doggy style for the first time?

It feels intense but very satisfying. It might slightly hurt at first, but as your partner goes on, you start getting more aroused. At first, you won’t be too impressed — doggy style seems too rough for many. But if you keep at it, you’ll see that the intensity and depth of penetration, offered by doggy style, makes it worth it.

The video guide on doggy style

If you want to get practical tips on getting started with the doggy style, I recommend taking a look at this guide. The position is explained in a very doable manner — you’ll be itching to try it out yourself.

The bottom line

Doggy style is an intense experience, and you need to prepare your body for deep penetration. You can stimulate yourself independently, if it works for you better, or ask a partner to join — tender foreplay at the beginning always makes things better.

When you are in the process, don’t be shy about speaking up if you don’t enjoy things. Sometimes, the smallest changes, like getting a pillow or moving closer to your partner, can make a huge difference. As soon as you two know what you are doing and are confident about it, you are going to make the most out of it. So, good luck with becoming a doggy style pro, you are in for quite a ride.

Aya Lisch
Has lifelong interest for all the sex and kinky experiments. Dedicated her life to traveling the world to explore differ aspects of international dating from Hong Kong to New York. Turned each failed date and one night stand into occasional stand-up comedy shows.

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