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Blowjob techniques that will make his legs shake

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To keep it spicy for both of you, we came up with the most popular oral techniques that will drive him crazy.

The basics

Before we move to the best part, let’s go through the essential information. All the penises are different, and you should be ready for it.

It has smell

All bodies are different, but we all have our odor. It depends on the food we eat, the drinks we drink, and even a basic soap we use in shower can be responsible for the smell of the body.

Once you pull down his pants, it might have smelled like the natural odor and some sweat. It is all more than less natural. Although, if you don’t feel like taking it in your mouth, play around it and offer to take a shower together first as foreplay.

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It has a taste

Same as the natural odor of the body or genitals, in particular, his sperm also will have a taste. What kind of taste you won’t know until you taste it. It could be different and depends on several factors.

Body as a temple, so whatever you put inside will affect you. Same with the sperm taste. It depends on food, alcohol, and smoking. Even if the food he eats is extra healthy or maybe some detox stuff, which seems healthy, it could affect the taste and make it more sour than usual. Either way, you can taste it and spit out if you don’t feel like swallowing it. Even “cuming in your mouth” will be more than enough. Swallowing is usually an extra.

It can be circumcised or uncircumcised

You don’t need to sweat much about it. Unless you never saw one with a foreskin before. No worries there. Just go with the flow. Start with your hand first then, and let the foreskin move together with your hand movement.

You can’t avoid the pubic hair either

Does the carpet match the drapes? Not always. Don’t expect every guy to have perfectly trimmed pubic hair. Sometimes it’s messy and bushy, which is also fine.

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Oral sex risk

We live in a time where Oral sexually transmitted infections (STIs) still exist. Any skin to skin or body fluids can get you STIs — this is why you should be aware of it to be able to protect yourself. If you don’t trust your partner, it is better to use flavoured condoms.

Best oral sex techniques

Now you are ready to know all different blowjob techniques. We suggest to suck the information in and try it as soon as possible.

Use your tongue

The basics are to lick the penis like you would lick ice cream or candy. Probably the main and most easy within oral sex techniques for women. It doesn’t require much and still feels good for him. Although, it is more of foreplay together with kissing the penis.

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Just the tip

The most enjoyable part of licking is to draw your tongue against his frenulum. The frenulum is the underside of the tip of their penis, where the glans joins his shaft. As well as just the head in general. Play with your tongue around it. There are no specific rules, whatever you feel like doing as long as you move your tongue around it.

Tea-bagging

Lick his balls. Move your tongue up and down against the balls. You can also take each of it or both balls to your mouth and suck on it. Even if that seems weird for you licking is a good way to start it, and most likely, you will enjoy it yourself after all. Not all men expect it to happen right away, so that would be a pleasant surprise.

Anilingus

While he is laying on his back move your tongue slowly to his balls and then to his anus. Start moving your tongue up and down and do the circular movements. Try to move that way and see the reaction. Plus, you would seem like a goddess to him if you would take the initiative in your own hands.

Head only

The head is the most sensitive part of the penis. Master it, and he won’t let you go. Anything is good here: kissing, licking, and sucking. Another one is vacuuming. Here you need to suck the head as it would do vacuuming machine. Try to suck the air out. That will bring little bits to the head of a penis as it has a lot of nerve endings.

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Ice cream technique

For this dish, you would need lots of saliva and your tongue. While holding his penis with both hands, start licking it and sucking it. Imagine as if your favorite ice cream would be dripping, and you need to get a taste asap.

In and out

Men love with their eyes, and we agree on that. In and out is one of the most fantastic blowjob techniques. Shape your mouth with an “O” form and take it in your mouth and out. You can go slow or fast, depending on his preferences. No need to suck here. Just move your tongue all the way through.

Vacuuming technique

It is easy as well but can get your mouth and jaw tired. But you know that your hands are always there to help you out. Sucking is basically vacuuming. Make it sloppy with your saliva, and you got for your men a porn fantasy.

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The teeth thing

We would consider this sensitive topic as advanced blowjob techniques. Here, you use your teeth a little, but only if you know the sensitivity of your man’s penis, and in case he likes his blow job rougher. It still doesn’t mean you have to bite it off. Slight teeth scratch on the bottom will spice it up a bit.

Deep throat

Deep throat considered advanced oral sex techniques. You cannot learn how to do a deep throat blow job overnight — it takes practice. For the theory classes, we would suggest watching porn and, for the practical part, take it slow but confident with your partner. He will be pleasantly surprised, no doubt there.

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Main tips for giving head

You can know all the best techniques for oral sex, but if you don’t add spice to it, there will be no turning on effect. It will mostly look like robotic movements. This is why tips below are a must to consider to use while testing all the blowjob techniques.

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Love what you do

No one wants to look down and see a person who is not enjoying the blow job. Major mood killer alert! Be enthusiastic. The dick you suck should look like the most delicious thing you’ve ever had in your mouth.

Use hands

As we mentioned before, hands are great to use while you rest your mouth. Yet, hands can be a handful while you are on it with your mouth too. You can use your mouth for the top of the penis and use hands for the lower part of it.

Don’t be silent

Moan again and again. Make enjoyable sounds for him. That is a major turn-on. Show him how you like it. You can dirty talk too in between catching a breath or while you use your hands.

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Make eye contact

Do all from the above and add eye contact. Eye contact makes you more confident and what you are doing to your man. That confidence will make him harder than he already is. It will show him that you are not a shy one and you know exactly what you are doing. Now you are golden, you are welcome.

Add him to the process

Point his hand to your hair, so he knows it is okay to grab it and pull it whenever he wants to. This is a good tip if you are new to each other. He can show you the way he likes it without even knowing it.

Sous it up

Add the flavor. Sucking off maple syrup or chocolate cream off his penis is never getting old. You can also try to put an ice cube in your mouth and then suck on it. Or sip champagne and hold it in your mouth while giving him head. Both ways will help him to explore different feelings, either it is an immediate change of the temperature or bubbles.

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Important don’ts for oral sex

Here is what you should avoid while giving him head.

  • Never try to bite it unless you’ve been asked to use your teeth;
  • Don’t do things you are not comfortable with;
  • Don’t look disgusted;
  • Stop being silent;
  • Don’t force things. If he doesn’t want to grab your hair or look you in the eyes — let it be.

FAQ

How to get rid of gagging?

If you want to avoid this, sometimes, awkward gagging sound and reflex in general, you can block your throat with your tongue by placing it up to the roof of your mouth. On the other hand, gagging makes men crazy.

Does deep throat matter?

It does, and it doesn’t at the same time. If you feel like it — you should do it. If even a thought scares you, better not to try — any sex, oral included, should be comfortable for both parties. That doesn’t mean though that you can’t still impress him. You can place his head of the penis toward the roof of your mouth. I can bet he won’t notice the difference.

Why is he so quiet? Am I doing it wrong?

Hell no! Unless you try to bite or scratch his penis, there is no way you are doing something wrong. Some men do not prefer moaning, and that’s okay. You can look for the other signs than just a verbal one. He might be squeezing those sheets or roll his eyes together with heavy breathing. Try not to overthink it.

I am getting tired too soon. What to do?

It is okay with you getting tired. Your whole jaw and throat are working hard, plus you need to remember to breathe. Once your mouth is tired, switch to a handjob for a bit. The best way to keep him entertained and hard with your hands is to use them both and create a lock with fingers. Spit on it to make it smooth and sloppy.

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Jennifer Williams
Has sexy British accent and sense of humor. Graduated as a psychologist, and worked as a copywriter for advertising. From the age of 20, Jennifer has been writing a diary to document her sexual discoveries, and later focused on writing articles about sex, relationships and dating. Loves coffee and collects sex toys.

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